Friday, July 9, 2010

End of Friendships

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Nothing good can last forever. If we think a good friendship will last forever, we are wrong. Every friendship may end. Very few friendships survive. And their friendship was lucky.

We develop a lot of friends in our youth, we said goodbye and went to high school. Most of the end of childhood friendship in that stage, and new friendships. The same pattern is repeated after the lecture. We went in different directions to pursue another career. Lost contact with friends and this friendship slowly too late.

Friendship is like a river. It flows towards the goal and towards the many interesting people. The relationship between friends change, when one of them married. The accession of new people can bring irreversible changes in friendship. Disagreement over the issue could lead to a very old friendship to a sudden end. friendships because friends have common interests and positions. Once they began to have different opinions, there are more similarities than differences of opinion during the talk. This friendship brought down by a worsening of relations.

Friends also have expectations of our friends. Relationships are not always entirely disinterested. If a friend does not meet the needs of other friends to meet, if necessary, the friendship was seriously ill. Imagine two friends, both started their careers with the same income. Say that after 2-3 years, one of them much richer than the others. Keep the charm of the old friendship? Difficult.

Every relationship has ups and downs. This is for us to think optimistic or pessimistic. Why do we have to think about how friendship can be bad tomorrow? Why not enjoy a relationship today and let tomorrow worry about itself?

Friendship does not die for several reasons. But this is not a universal law. Many friendships survive over the long term and gives great joy to her friends. Why not take your friendship as one of the species and maintain?


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